Travel Planning…or Not

by Debbie Ferm

For the past couple of months, I’ve poked around my favorite travel sites trying to decide whether to take the family out of town for spring break, or just stay home and get some projects done.  Travel planning these days has gotten more complicated around here.  The kids are now all officially teenagers; ages 16, 15, and 13, and their sports and social lives are constantly throwing a monkey wrench into my plans.

Then there are the dogs.  I love them, but they are big, young, unruly mutts that no one wants to take care of for an entire week.  Hence, we have to find accommodations for them, which usually end up costing more than we spend on a rental for our entire family of five!

I spend all winter cursing Minnesota.  The cold.  The dark.  The snow.  Usually I’ve got a spring break trip planned before the first flake of white stuff even falls from the sky, but this year things just didn’t come together.     Imagine my surprise when a record breaking heat wave decided to blow into town just in time for spring break!

Eighty degrees in March?  Amazing.

My apologies, Minnesota.

 

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The topic of the moment in the travel world is the TSA, and their use of full body scanners and enhanced pat downs for security.  I thought I better get my two cents in…

A couple of years ago, I showed up at the airport and found that I had been deemed a “Quad S”.  I had no idea what a quad S was, but that’s how the customer service agent referred to me when she called security.  When she handed me my  boarding pass, she told me to skip the regular  security line, and report to a special line reserved for people who were Secondary Security Screening Selectees.   I looked down, and there it was, the dreaded SSSS in the corner of my boarding pass.

When I arrived at security, I was searched, and searched again.  My bag was searched, my shoes were sprayed with something, and they used what looked like some kind of tape to check for bomb residue.  I was given the enhanced pat down, which is now the topic of so much scrutiny, and was on my way.  The TSA agents were courteous and efficient, and doing their job.

The next time I arrived at the airport, the same thing happened.

And the time after that, I was inexplicably let through with the SSSS at check in.  I didn’t speak up, though I knew that I should have been directed to the “special” security line.  As it turned out, when I arrived at the gate, I was called to the desk where the gate agent told me that someone would be down to search me at the gate.  There I was, with a gate full of people looking at me while I was wanded and patted down.  Yes, it was the enhanced pat down that they keep talking about, with all the necessary patting included.

At that point, I thought things were getting a little silly, but I never felt violated.

The “Quad S” followed me for over a year, and because I happened to be traveling a lot that year, I got used to it.  I thought about researching how I could get off the most wanted list, but never got around to it.  It eventually dropped off, and I never found out why I was on it in the first place.  Some think buying last minute tickets, or one way tickets can trigger the algorithm, and I do both of those things on occasion.  I have also shown up at the airport without an ID because of a lost purse, so I’m sure that may cause me problems in the future.

But I cooperate without complaint because I know what it’s like working with the general public, let alone the flying public.

Here is where I think there can be problems

There have been times when TSA agents have been rude a-holes to me and everyone else in line at security.

The majority of the time, TSA agents have been professional and courteous, and other times they have gone above and beyond what I would expect.  The time my purse was stolen, the TSA agents at JFK went out of their way to make sure I made my flight, and another time, my son put his ipod in the little dish to go through security and never saw it again.  The TSA agents searched everywhere for that ipod, gave me a form to fill out, and a number to call to see if it was turned in.  They were great.

But, like I said before, there have been times when I’ve seen agents on a serious power trip treating people like a group of stupid cattle.   Imagine if that is the agent that patted you down.  I can see how you would feel violated.

In my opinion, if these pat downs are going to be the norm, there needs to be training, training, and more training.  TSA agents need to keep in mind that some people have never flown before, and what is routine for the agent may be disconcerting to the passenger.  If children are being searched, there needs to be specialized training given to those agents.

The TSA needs to be looking for new, effective,  and less intrusive ways to conduct security.  And passengers need to be careful about the accusations they’re making.

There  needs to be a huge push to make sure that everyone who flies is aware of the procedures used at security.  They also need to know what they should NOT have to put up with just because someone is having a bad day.

In the end, this is a huge inconvenience for everyone.  Terrorism sucks, but it’s a reality, and there will never be a perfect system.

I think everyone needs to tread very carefully right now, on both sides.

I’m actually kind of grateful I was a Quad S for awhile.  I’m an old pro at this.

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When you are raising kids, there are so many things competing for your time.   We have not done a great job of exposing our kids to art, so when we stumbled on this small art gallery in Wisconsin, I thought they would glance around and be done.  Instead, they were very impressed with the work of the local artists, and wanted to look at everything!

I guess I haven’t screwed them up too much, yet.

Family Vacation in Wisconsin

Wisconsin vacation with kids

Wisconsin Family Vacation

Wisconsin Family Vacation

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Small Town War Memorials

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Family Vacations – When the Kids Don’t Want To Go

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Resort Reviews For Growing Families

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Holiday Travel with Kids

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It’s November, and we all know what that means.  You only have to turn on your TV or walk into Target if you need to be reminded that the holidays are coming.  Toy commercials started running on Halloween, and Christmas themed M & M’s moved in before the black and orange ones moved out. I [...]

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Frivolous Travel is Authentic,Too

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Over the past couple of weeks, I have been  on the internet scouring around for information that I want to share with readers of this blog, because there are a ton of talented, funny, inspiring,  writers out there sharing stories of their travels. But I take umbrage at the fact that some of the writers  [...]

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Halloween was Different this Year

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Maybe it was because it was on Sunday, or because it seemed to sneak up so fast this year, but Halloween was different.  After such a brilliant October full of sun and 70 to 80 degree days, I think it took everyone by surprise.  But I think there was something else at play in my [...]

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Duck Tours with Teens and Tweens

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I love Duck Tours.  If you’ve never been on a Duck Tour,  you’re missing out.   It’s an opportunity for you to relax and enjoy the sights and sounds of harbor and river towns, while foolishly quacking at locals.  If you are lucky, the tour company will provide you with a beak shaped quacker, so you [...]

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